50 First Dates

May 20, 2007

Specifications

This movie was released in 2004, and starred Adam Sandler and Drew Barrymore.

Status

I do not own this movie, but checked it out from the library. I have added it to my wish list for when I get money.

Review

This movie is significant in that it shows a person with a disability, and her learning to cope. That is, Lucy has a head injury with prevents her from turning short term memory into long term memory during sleep. This was caused due to a car accident, and the result is every morning she wakes up and thinks its the morning of the accident, all her short term memory is erased. She remembers things from before the accident with no trouble, and has family and friends she knows, so she can live a "normal" life. Time, however, stands still for her.

The DVD comments not the similarity to the movie Groundhog Day (which I have not seen).

Then one day, Henry (who is the protagonist) meets her. He has an interest, not knowing her condition. Since they hit is off, he comes back the next day, she doesn't know him, of course, which throws him for a loop. However, he introduces himself again. By the third day, her friends tell him about her condition, so he tries to capitalize on it. However, doing the same thing that attracted her before doesn't interest her this time.

Eventually it is discovered that her father and brother are setting everything up the way it was on the day of the accident so that she would feel good, and not have to face her disability. Henry becomes concerned - warning them that eventually she will become old, and they will not be able to hide the passage of time. That is, from her perspective she will have gone to bed young, then woke up the next morning old.

Henry decides on a new tack. Rather, he meets her first thing in the morning, and presents her with a video which depicts all that has happened over the year since the accident - including the accident, and the reality of her condition. Later, we find out that once she was aware of her condition, she started keeping a detailed diary. That is, each night she writes everything that happened during the day, so the diary becomes her memory. She reads it each morning.

Eventually, she decides she cannot keep holding Henry back from his life, so she informs him she is erasing him from her diary, and her life. But Henry misses her. Eventually, she cannot remember him consciously, but she (being an artist) draws his picture all the time. At the end, they get married, and she has a daughter. He goes on the trip he was planning on, but brings his family along. Lucy still gets up every morning and reads her diary, but they are happy.

This is significant because, even though the disability is fictional, it shows how even that handicap can be lived with. Not cured, but lived with. From the previews I had thought that the movie was making fun of a handicap, but I was glad to be wrong.

There is an additional point made in this movie, and that is the change in Henry. The opening credits indicate that Henry is a rounder - always starting relationships with women, but never allowing the relationship to develop. Just as Lucy learns to live with her handicap, Henry learns to care about Lucy, to love Lucy. In a sense, this change in Henry exactly parallels the change in Lucy. Lucy learns to accept the passage of time, Henry learns to accept that he can form a long term relationship with women.

This is another reason this movie is significant. Henry's growing up (and it is growing up) is directly because unlike the previous women Henry had been with, Lucy needed him, and the needing significantly effected the relationship.


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